tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post2520261218262035758..comments2024-03-27T05:32:18.935-04:00Comments on NESHEAHOLIC: Rewarded for doing what's right?LaNeshehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04219535634041170532noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-39404997115420712932011-04-18T19:51:13.059-04:002011-04-18T19:51:13.059-04:00haha so true! unfortunately, the world we live in ...haha so true! unfortunately, the world we live in is so messed up :/kitkathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06768682440881142726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-75707336512754168502011-04-16T18:23:27.857-04:002011-04-16T18:23:27.857-04:00I couldn't agree more! Rewards go for those wh...I couldn't agree more! Rewards go for those who EXCEED expectations, not those who do what they are already expected to do! That's why there is such a sense of entitlement amongst people nowadays, people feel that they deserve a trophy for just showing up -___-<br /><br /><a href="http://thatgoodgoodblog.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">That GOOD GOOD Blog</a>Dee O.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05623878770480083466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-57678240868207154932011-04-11T15:59:11.303-04:002011-04-11T15:59:11.303-04:00Perhaps it makes more sense for children to encour...Perhaps it makes more sense for children to encourage them to practice good behavior. That's all.Thunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-31552225607323949892011-04-11T15:16:46.358-04:002011-04-11T15:16:46.358-04:00@Ex Fat Gurl & Kiianah - I can see how rewards...@Ex Fat Gurl & Kiianah - I can see how rewards may be needed for children...BUT, doesn't that cause them to feel like they should be rewarded for what they are supposed to do as adults? Or no?LaNeshehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04219535634041170532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-64032251044289782642011-04-11T14:42:28.395-04:002011-04-11T14:42:28.395-04:00I think rewards are in order when dealing with chi...I think rewards are in order when dealing with children. It teaches them morals and promotes doing the right thing. I don't think a man that doesn't cheat should necessarily be rewarded, he is an adult and knows the difference between right and wrong. I'm not going to reward you just because you honored our monogamy agreement, that's expected of you otherwise, we don't need to be in a "relationship". Now if you're going above and beyond for your woman, something that not EVERY brotha does, a reward or two may be in order ;)Editorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18379941129043275797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-56084792400521846032011-04-11T13:59:06.710-04:002011-04-11T13:59:06.710-04:00Rewards promote the behavior to continue. It also ...Rewards promote the behavior to continue. It also says I know your trying really hard and I acknowledge that. Maybe not so much with the man but yes with students and so fourth!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08296819570315683273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-40679926384434361692011-04-11T13:50:44.702-04:002011-04-11T13:50:44.702-04:00@Lucy - definitely, the reward for doing what is r...@Lucy - definitely, the reward for doing what is right is further good down the road.LaNeshehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04219535634041170532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-56624751953776063282011-04-11T13:31:40.731-04:002011-04-11T13:31:40.731-04:00I agree. I was never rewarded for doing what is ri...I agree. I was never rewarded for doing what is right, except with the natural succession of events after doing what is right - good results. I was taught that when you shoot for the superlative, you reach excellence. When you shoot for just OK, you reach mediocrity. Etc.Lucyhttp://lucywrites.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com