tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post4761583207852528900..comments2024-03-12T07:01:14.082-04:00Comments on NESHEAHOLIC: The Dilemma of the Single Black WomanLaNeshehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04219535634041170532noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-76267754781854265442011-09-16T16:24:42.621-04:002011-09-16T16:24:42.621-04:00@OneWu2 - definitely agree.@OneWu2 - definitely agree.LaNeshehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04219535634041170532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-6161635319389232482011-09-16T10:40:38.875-04:002011-09-16T10:40:38.875-04:00I absolutely agree with you 3rd suggestion. I beli...I absolutely agree with you 3rd suggestion. I believe a woman should have some basic "non-negotiables" but they should be value driven, not superficial. Lots of women may be ignoring MR. RIGHT over things that aren't that important in the long run. Values, not superficial details, are the things that will carry a relationship through the tough times.OneWu2https://www.blogger.com/profile/11904518133499552982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-14112504789507025842011-09-16T10:39:07.529-04:002011-09-16T10:39:07.529-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.OneWu2https://www.blogger.com/profile/11904518133499552982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-35653425424717594442011-09-07T10:41:59.548-04:002011-09-07T10:41:59.548-04:00Like! I have never seen it as a plight, but perhap...Like! I have never seen it as a plight, but perhaps I'm not up on the trends. I know why I'm single even though I complain about it sometimes. I also know what I can do to find someone. Really, I don't mind being single right now and am not in a huge hurry to change my status (despite my protests). I do think it's funny that this is garnering so much attention when there are countless women who are single. Great post and I'm glad I can read and comment. :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-15530173004650773202011-09-07T09:41:52.359-04:002011-09-07T09:41:52.359-04:00@TheBigShowAtUD - yea, I mean, I don't want to...@TheBigShowAtUD - yea, I mean, I don't want to pat myself on the back too much, but I think I'm more qualified than Steve Harvey lol<br /><br />@Thu- thanks for that article! I just don't get out of all the issues in the world why this is such a studied topic.LaNeshehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04219535634041170532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-19852576700844493572011-09-06T21:57:05.534-04:002011-09-06T21:57:05.534-04:00Your blog says it all.
And you reminded me of th...Your blog says it all. <br /><br />And you reminded me of this post by Racialicious...pretty ridiculous the conclusions some people come up with to "justify" what they presumably "see." <br />http://www.racialicious.com/2011/08/08/yet-another-black-women-cant-get-married-story/Thunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-40755628859506711022011-09-06T19:50:19.265-04:002011-09-06T19:50:19.265-04:00I think happily-married black women should provide...I think happily-married black women should provide this sort of advice before Steve Harvey and single bloggers.TheBigShowAtUDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15902590757280962009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-82397690093062177032011-09-06T17:46:30.866-04:002011-09-06T17:46:30.866-04:00@Funmi - Thanks for commenting! And definitely, I ...@Funmi - Thanks for commenting! And definitely, I know plenty of men who have trouble finding a woman, it's all around, it's not a Black woman issue.LaNeshehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04219535634041170532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641192580368746983.post-77324708554381166922011-09-06T17:44:01.361-04:002011-09-06T17:44:01.361-04:00I love this post. Thanks for sharing your thoughts...I love this post. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us as a happy married black woman. Thanks for saying that other women of other races also have problems finding mates. And I am pretty sure many men will feel this same way too about themselves. I wish people would get this message and stop singling black women out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com