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Wednesday, August 18, 2010

I am the perfect wife

Before you jump through the screen yelling “What makes you the perfect wife?!” What I mean is, I am the perfect wife...for my husband. I am not a perfect wife. I, like everyone else, have my shortcomings. But I do think I must have been crafted for my husband in particular. He needs a wife who is caring, compassionate, and all that, ...but he also needs a wife who sees the same value in good TV shows, and who can run his lower level World of Warcraft character through a dungeon with her 59 Undead Rogue. -- that my friends, is ME.

I, on the other hand, need a husband who even though he hates sitting in the front row at a theater, he will sit in the front row if I’m in the show. I also need a husband with an open mind towards the arts --that is my husband.

The point I am trying to make is that so many people are looking for “the perfect man” or “the perfect woman” when really they should be looking for the perfect mate for them. Forget societal standards of what a wife should be, or the notion of the perfect man perceived through chick-flicks. Think about yourself. Think about what you need. You are the only person who will have to live the rest of your days with that person - not your friends, not the movies, and not TV or Internet dating advice blogs.
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  1. Mr. Anonymous returns
    To have a woman that understands her man is a freaking God send. Not try to change somebody all the time just fine tune. Thats all i got to say for now.

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  2. YES indeed. Good point. No finding a replacement for you!

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  3. That is soo true :) I get that feeling too like God shaped me and my husbands personalities to be together !

    feel free to come check out my blog if you get the chance :)

    http://justinastyme.blogspot.com/

    -Justina

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  4. @Justina - Thanks for coming by. I'll check out your page!

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  5. I try to keep that in mind. It's better to be with someone suited to be with you as opposed to someone who is 'perfect'. I love to travel and I want someone who is willing to go with me when I get the itch to go.

    I liked this post! It was cute. and the last paragraph is true. Only you have to live with that person, not anyone else

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